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Judith "Judy" Lee Alligood
June 24, 1960 – November 11, 2025
Passed peacefully and with grace on November 11, 2025. By her side was her much beloved
husband, James Harvey Alligood, and nearby her sister-in-law, Lydia A Waldron (nee Alligood).
Judith was born in Milwaukee, WI, to Burton S. (OBM) and Sandra (nee Wolf) Miller. At the age
of four, her family moved to No. Miami Beach, FL. When she entered kindergarten, she had
already had a year of pre-K. Throughout her high school years, she was always a step
ahead. She fondly remembered her grandfather, S Joseph Wolf, teaching her as a very young
child how to read the stock page of the WSJ, the finer points of brandy, and how to cut and
smoke a cigar. ("Do not inhale"). Also important was Temple (Bat Mitzvah, Confirmation, and
"guest Cantor" some summer Saturdays and time spent there and outside of Temple with her
always loving, supportive, and endeared grandmother Sylvia (nee Reider) Wolf.
After graduating from Washington University, School of Business in St. Louis, MO. She successfully
pursued a graduate degree from Emory University in Atlanta, GA. There she began her banking
career and was the first and at the time only female member of First Atlanta Bank's Management
Trainee Program. She more than held her own and was never intimidated in a conference room
or other gathering of men only. Judith enjoyed an interesting career with both international and
regional banks, fulfilling a variety of roles and responsibilities, first as a commercial lender,
where she enjoyed on-site visits and getting to know the borrower and their business. Later
overseeing credit analysis and administration, she continued to enjoy the challenge of structuring
sound loans and mentoring staff members.
Judy wed Harvey, the love of her life, on March 24, 1996, in Miami, FL, where they met and
lived before moving to Milwaukee, WI, in 2001. She was passionate about gender equality and
that no one should be hungry. Wherever she lived, she volunteered either at a soup kitchen, food
bank, or pantry. She loved her morning coffee and quiet, polka dots, and scalloped edges on just
about anything. Fulfilling was finding, trying, and sharing either a good book or recipe. She
appreciated a beautifully set table, traditional, modern, or a blend of the two, as well as good
design and keeping it simple, whether it was well-made attire, accessories, or furniture. She was
fond of art shows and art glass, which she collected selectively, partial to the blue-green hues of
the ocean. Also, a mid-century green glass, which both of her grandmothers were also partial
to. A wonderful night for her was dinner with family and friends, made even better by being
followed by cards, mahjong, or the theatre.
Along with her beloved husband and dear sister-in-law, Judith is survived by her brother-in-law
Robert J Waldron, Jr., their children, Judy's cherished niece Nicole (Will) Layfield, and their nephew
Robert "Robby" (Stephanie) Waldron, along with her much-adored great-nephew and 4 great-nieces, and her Milwaukee sisters and cousins. She is also survived by Burt's grandchildren, Kristopher Macneil and Jennifer Macneil, and other dear relatives and friends.
In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her grandparents, her "Milwaukee Mothers"
Joyce Kahn (née Gordon) and Suzanne "Sue" Krasno (nee Biller), a dear second cousin, Sandra
Hoffman (nee Reider), Burt's beloved wife, Marilyn (nee Rosenberg, her daughter, Lori
Macneil (nee Nitkin); aunt, Muriel (nee Miller) and Sydney Miller; and uncle, Jordan and J.
Donna (nee Grossman) Miller. Each is a blessed memory.
Judy was a gift and will always be cherished.
A celebration of Judith's life will be held on:
Thursday, November 13th, 6:15 pm CT at Congregation Shalom Chapel,
7630 N Santa Monica Blvd, Fox Point, and will be live-streamed on YouTube
@congregationshalommilw.
To join virtually, https://www.cong-shalom.org/live-streaming.html
Tuesday, December 9th, 4:00 pm ET at Temple Beit HaYam,
951 SE Monterey Commons Blvd, Stuart, FL 34996 772.286.1531
To join virtually, https://www.tbhfl.org/streaming
A gathering of family and friends will follow each, with further details provided at the service.
In Judith's memory, please no food or flowers. Appreciated are donations to the House of Hope
2484 SE Bonita St., Stuart, FL 34997 https://www.hohmartin.org/donate
Planned Parenthood https://www.weareplannedparenthood.org/onlineactions/cOJVhOyrzkq4uBcxVekXF
A2?tabs=true&sourceid=1000063
Your local food bank, pantry, or a charity of your choice. Thank you.
May her memory be for a blessing.
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